When Pete Buttigieg came out publicly in 2015, one of the first people to reach out wasn't a party official or a political strategist. It was a fellow mayor who had navigated the same moment years earlier.
Chris Cabaldon—then the longest-serving mayor in West Sacramento's history—had publicly come out in his own State of the City address in 2006. He sought Buttigieg out at the U.S. Conference of Mayors that year to offer something rare in politics: the perspective of someone who had already walked that road, won reelection, and continued building a career on the other side of it.
That conversation launched one of the more quietly significant political friendships of the past decade.
From Wedding Guest to Campaign Chair
The relationship deepened quickly. Within three years, Cabaldon was a guest at Buttigieg's wedding. By 2019, he was on stage at Buttigieg's presidential campaign launch in South Bend—one of three mayors chosen to introduce the candidate to the crowd.
The endorsement carried institutional weight. Cabaldon served as the inaugural chair of the national LGBTQ Mayors Alliance and had spent years building credibility at the intersection of local governance and national policy. Buttigieg is reported to have frequently sought him out for counsel on how a small-city mayor earns a larger platform. Cabaldon went on to serve as California co-chair of the campaign, part of a nine-member panel that included the state's Lieutenant Governor and Senate President pro Tempore.
Where They Are Now
Buttigieg served as Secretary of Transportation from 2021 to January 2025. Cabaldon won election to the California State Senate in 2024, representing Senate District 3—Wine Country, the Delta, the North Bay, and the Sacramento Valley. He is the first Filipino American and first LGBTQ senator elected north of San Francisco and Stockton.
Both have moved well beyond the mayoralty that first connected them, with careers now operating at different levels of government.